Thursday, January 10, 2019

These few days...crossroads


Like driving, life is full of crossroads. Sometimes you are very sure of which turn to turn into. But sometimes.... you dilly dally, you speculate, you fumble,you rumble before taking a turn. Some may be calculated, some just move on, bull dozed on. Whatever may. Whatever be will be,will be. Que sera,sera.

Hence we have those multitude turns... heard about u turn, v turn, . Plentiful these days. We came across plans that are reversed. Plans that are overturned. Plans that stood still.

These few days, life for people in RBL or from RBL  or known to RBL were crisscrossed. My sympathy goes to my sister in law who lost her dear husband a few days before. Yesterday,after attending Klinik 1 Malaysia for his daily dressing, I drove into her taman. Honked a few times but no answer. Later got to know that she has to settle matters regarding her late hubby at the former work place. For a full time housewife, I could visualise her bewilderment. Hope alls well for her after hearing news about impending pembahagian harta peninggalan. Kesian kan seorang balu yang berhadapan kematian suami dan terpaksa mengharungi hari hari tidak menentu bila hak hak dipersoalkan. My doa for her.

My sonny bonny too is at crossroads. His attachment to India has many loose ends. To go or not to go back to Bangaluru. Many pertinent matters especially regarding perks, seniority, job scope arose. We tried very hard to help him in whatever we could.  Matters regarding working overseas especially in India were searched in the internet. Susah juga bila HR kurang membantu dalam memahami clause dalam perjanjian. Renumeration for instance. Kalau rugi tak berbaloi lah pergi. Teringat uncle yg banyak pengalaman berkerja diluar negara. Kalau dekat nak pi jumpa dia minta pendapat. Hi uncle!

There are a few matters too thats been hovering like drones over my head. Personal health, hal anak anak dan suami macam tak putus putus dok menghurung .... hai entahlah. Agaknya bila dah kaku baru hal hal begini selesai. Tapi mai hal lain pulak kan... seram memikirkan.

Wah.. panjang dah cikson dok click clack cluck kat papan kekunci ni. Got to sign off.

Semoga hari hari yg berbaki, aku lebih terarah...bila tiba di crossroads.

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