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Have a GREAT Conversation.

How many a times did you come across this situation:

You open your mouth.You open your mouth again.And again.And again.

Ni cerita P.Ramlee kah? Ada scene yang mana Sudin or Sattar trying to keep a person from blabbering too much.

Ah,we came across that one too many and too often.Tak dan nak habih dah potong cakap.

Hhuhh dah tau.sambil tangan mengerewang bagi isyarat suruh diam.Menjengkelkan bukan?

So what do you do.Shut up that very instant and go about dgn mulut yang persis ikan todak sepanjang hari or you stood your ground.

Dalam conversation pun ada artnya? Anda tahu? Good.

Tapi yang tak tahu tu makcik bolehlah nak bagi tahu serba sedikit hasil bacaan article pada June 7 dlm NST.

Komunikasi hebat perlukan praktis,sabar,pengetahuan.

Bercakap dari hati.Sincere kerana kalau anda berbohong nampak tidak ikhlas dan once a lie,always a lie.

The five elements of great conversation:

1. Ease-interestingly,the amount of mental preparation we put into a conversation is mostly inversely productive to the quality of conversation

                   Fikir dulu baru berkata , kalau tidak badan binasa.

1. Fluidity –awkward silence /pause  is ok. Take the ebb and flow of conversation in stride

                    Tak payah lah jadi bertih goreng.Pup pap pup pap non  

                    stop.Bingit tau.

1. Fun-start being fun.Dont think or worry too much.Enjoy interacting with others andget that reciprocating feeling from everyone else.

                    Buat lawakla sekali sekala.Jangan jadi munster.

1. Meaning-great conversation need to be meaningful.It needs the sense of mutual sharing of oneself   in the conversation.It need not be a mind blowing revelation or a deep dark secret.Even humour is personal

                  Cakaplah yang ada makna.Ada faedah.

1. Purpose-  without purpose there is no sense of direction.

                   Cakap biar ada tujuan.  

 

orang yang selalu kita jumpa:

cakap dia saja betul.

dia saja pandai

cakap tak kena tempat

cakap merapu  24 jam.

cakap pelan sampai kita ingat kita pekak.

cakap kuat awat dia ingat kita pekak!  

    Jade :  Dell dengar ya mak nak kata……   bla bla bla. 

      

Mok: tu tak dak lain la kalau tak mengata! Kalau tak aku,mamason yang kena.! bla bla.

Tazkirah hari Jumaat.