To my loved ones.

 

IT'S UP TO YOU

I gave you life, but I cannot live it for you.
I can teach you things, but I cannot make you learn.
I can give you directions, but I cannot always be there to lead you.
I can allow you freedom, but I cannot account for it.
I can take you to pray, but I cannot make you believe.
I can teach you right from wrong, but I cannot decide for you.
I can give you love, but I cannot force it upon you.
I can teach you to be a friend, but I cannot make you one.
I can teach you to share, but I cannot make you unselfish.
I can teach you respect, but I cannot force you to show honor.
I can grieve about your report card but I cannot make you study,
I can advise you about friends, but I cannot choose them for you.
I can teach you about sex and the facts of life, but I cannot decide for you.
I can tell you about drinking, but I cannot say “no” for you.
I can warn you about drugs, but I cannot prevent you from using them.
I can teach you about goals and dreams, but I cannot achieve them for you.
I can teach you kindness, but I cannot force you to be kind.
I can warn you about sin, but I cannot make your morals.
I can love you as a [daughter] son, but I cannot place you in God’s good book
I can pray for you and your future, but I cannot make you walk into God’s heaven.
I can tell you how to live, but I cannot give you eternal life.

 

This is a an article,which I think quite sum up what I was telling my brood of 4 since time in memorial.

Dear children,

Do have a moment to ponder about them.

Anyway,I hope and pray  the best for you all wherever,whenever,however and forever.

 

Credit to Masterwordsmith blogspot. Sorry for the slight alteration . ( abiding by the belief of my religion)