its really madenning

 

The plan being finalised.S made his mind to accept the meerkat offer. So as parents , what else should we do?

To be against might bring repercussion in the future.As always we are at our children’s wishes.

So begin another journey to the land of jeruk pala one Saturday afternoon.

Finding a lodging for S for the duration of his intra brought us to bayan Lepas where a room was secured near the airport.

After finalising what we need to do,we made our journey back home .

So back to the square one. There’s one lonely lady all alone at one lonely home.

Hope the final choice is one good choice.

Ewah macam dok pilih menantu pulak!

Takut pilih,punya pilih dapat yang dah serpih.

Tak guna lagi nak sedih

walau pedih

Yang dipilih ,di tapih rupanya hampih.

 

So to my dearest

do all your best

as the choice is the best among the rest. Insya allah

 

Loving you always,from no.7

kerja gila part 2

 

Betui la oghang dok kata

It doesnt rain but it pours.

Baru nak lepaih penat 3 days memburu rainbow dari perlis ke shah alam ke pulau pinang and then back to Kangar ada lagi offer yang datang.

Baru la nak berbelah bagi.

Nak pi ke tak.Nak pi ke tak.

Macam orang nak menikah.

Tunang dah hanya nak tunggu hari nak kahwin,

Tup tup datang orang mulut punya manis,janji bulan bintang,pijak semut tak mati ,dok mendayu ,merayu.Mau berubah 360 darjah.

Begitu iman manusia.Baru la nampak yang dok dalam tangan tu berlemuih.Kotoq.

Sabtu ni,sekali lagi kena pi Penang.

Penat.Penat.

They aint heavy

I was asked : why take all the troubles for your children?

My answer was :  will do whatever there is for them until I can do no  more.Yes. Until I can do no more.

Thats what parents are for.

Back in the old days when they were schooling ,they were ferried to and from school.They were accompanied most of the time.Curfew time is 7.00 .I would wait in front of the house until all are safely in.

Still remembering the day when the sick abah and me scouted the fields of our neighborhood and found our boy playing in the torrent rain.His UPSR was just days ahead.

Not once was my child left to return to Kl on her own during her Sri puteri years..Abah would take the same bus back home after making sure that the girl is safely back in her hostel.Meaning travelling the whole day and night!

The boy was sent to the front of the hostel during his weekly return.Travelling to any place that the children were for their trip back every semester was nothing.

I must say that abah was one that did most of the hard work.Never say no to the children when they need anything. Rushing to AS to get the books they need.Ironing the school uniforms.Giving them tuition during their primary years.Attending the PTA meetings and meeting the teachers. Apa yang dia tak buat.

Well.my children .You are lucky to be having a father like pak Li.

I was asked: Kak tak sebok lagi ka dengan anak anak.

Kak tak ulang alik lagi ka.Sat kat Melaka.Sat kat Pahang.Sat kat KL

My answer : larat lagi buat la.

 

I was asked: How do you manage to see all your 4 children in uni.

My answer was : Alhamdullilah.We have no wealth to inherit.So every child was given the same treasure.Education.And work hard they must for this. Not excluding abah and mama. Duit jangan kira la.Tak ada nya pinggan  mangkuk pyrex  ke,vision ke ,corelle ke. Pinggan pelastik pun kenyang juga.

Rantai ,gelang subang tok sah dok berangan la.

And most of all the parents should sabarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr .

Thats the key:  Sabar and sabar.

Gila…..kerja gila,kerja gila gila and gila kerja

 

Literally meaning mad ,taking risk , doing something unimaginable and lastly hard working in that sense.

The whole of Malaysia and the whole wide world was gripped with the tragic news that happened last week.The news of the grandson killing his grandparents ,sister and beheading his father was something out of a horror movie.

It happened in Gemencheh,N9 ,before he fled with his father’s severed head on his bike to the bus stand.How he got to SA to bury his father’s head at section 21 muslim cemetery was astounding.

Thankfully he was arrested at an LRt station in Kuala Lumpur.

Reading Cariforum,one got to realise what had triggered to make this once top of the class student ,a prefect and a university grad to be driven to this horrifying act.

He was one person who keeps to himself.High expectation was all that he got from those he loved.When he dropped out of UTM he might be the subject of ridicule.

Being VSS from his Affin Banks work and having failed in his business venture was another sad episode .Lastly he landed himself as a restaurant helper.

BUT woes have not ended. His failed engagement for the second time was what I think must be his driving point.It was said that he had enticed his latest ex to Gemencheh on the pretext that his family had met with an accident and they had all died!

I had seen orang setengah gila and orang betul betul gila.I had seen totally naked mad man.Yuck .I had seen people ,mengasah parang and threatening to burn their house when met with challenges.

But I cannot understand or less  forget what I heard .Pak cik saya ada tiga lagi.Said by a future son in law to his soon to be father in law.Gila ka pa ?